We Definitely want it, can’t stop thinking about it, and the stories we can tell of the pursuit of it……… will make you rethink what’s possible in this world..
And after building up aaaaaaaall that excitement; anticipating a stream of events that will slooooooooowly lead you closer and closer to an eXplosion of purely sweeeeet Orgasmic Pleasure..
You’re left with a Big O HEEEELL NO!! is that really it..?
How many of you feel this way?
Sad thing is that you’re not alone.
A couple of years ago I came across a stat that shocked me.
The top 4 sexual problems for a woman are a lack of arousal, desire, orgasm, and satisfaction. Are you kidding me..? Then, what exactly are you ladies experiencing during sex..? If you’re having sex right now.
I believe that sex was designed for you to Feel such an abundance of sensations that lead to Pleasure that it will light you up brighter than a lighthouse, in utter darkness, guiding a ship to shore and propel you to do the impossible just to get some.
Even with the slightest taste of it, you’re instantly addicted to how it makes you Feel. And who wouldn’t want more of that..? Who wouldn’t want to eXplore the magnitude of sensations that you can experience and derive from those adventures..?
For me, sparking the arousal and igniting the desire in a woman have been instrumental in building up the sexual tension that allows her to Feel an earth trembling satisfaction. It is not about getting you to orgasm but to avoid thinking about it and place the emphasis on creating so much Pleasure, with everything that you can do, that your body loses control and just has to release.. Because it can’t hold itself back any longer..!
You tease, seduce, and provoke it with such enticing, tantalizing ways that it’s inevitable. Your body needs to eXplode!!
Like a volcano, we don’t know when it’s going to blow or erupt. But the tension continues to quietly build up, it may give you signs here & there with tremors looking to release but the majority continues to build up quietly inside until the pressure is too much and there it goes..
And what a mesmerizing, sensually delicious scene it is watching the lava come out.. That’s when I joyfully say.. Ay Que RRRiico!! Because it is..! You even lose your mind & place in time as you slooowly recover and regain your senses.
Have you had an eXperience like this..? Would you like one..?
Better yet, would you Looove one, two, three, and just lose count of them..? I’m not saying that every time it will be like this, but when you pivot, change the focus from penetration and orgasms to simply create Pleasure, you’ll start having plenty more delectable eXperiences that will eXcite you to want more.
And the top 4 sexual problems you ladies have endured will be a thing of the past. You’ll laugh looking back at those days and will make sugar you never, ever return to them.
Once again, is this something that interests you..? Would you want more of this kind of sex..? Then let’s continue..
The objective shouldn’t be, how quickly can I get you to orgasm but how can we take our time to stimulate you to the point where you’re not wondering if you’re going to experience one. They will inevitably happen through the amount of Pleasure you Feel & eXperience which allows your mind to let go and fully enjoy it all.
The less you think about it, the more comfortable you are, and the more you allow yourself to Feel Pleasure, the easier they will come. We just have to caress your buttons and approach your Pleasure the way it turns you ON!
what would make anyone and you believe that you will have any desire whatsoever to want and have sex?
You could try to artificially increase your sexual desire but where’s the fun and excitement in that? And if you have tried any of those routes, how has that worked out for you? Still feeling frustrated, annoyed, broken, stuck… Should I continue with the list?
I would like for you to see that approaching your desire in that way is what keeps you, in your current state, stuck and frustrated in the first place.
Because in some way I Feel your pain, it’s who I am, and what I naturally gravitate towards.. Being this way lives in me. It has become what I mostly think about every single day. I’ve realized that when I look at a woman, I see and do things differently.
And I’m sharing this with you with the sweet naughty intention of showing what I’ve found to be a more pleasurable path to increase your desire and sexually satisfy a woman.
I’ve been a sensually hopeful romantic since I was a kid. Writing love letters & poems, getting chocolates & flowers, doing sweet & thoughtful gestures to girls I was interested in. Also, I loved searching for and finding quiet places out in nature, some under the stars, for those moments when we would go out.
During my college years and after graduating, I would talk to my girl-friends and they would share things about their sex life or lack of. Mostly about how guys generally would be and how it didn’t do much for them.
Their approach would be fast, furious, and to the point. Before, during, and after. Meaning, before going out on a date. What they would do to get her to say yes. How they behaved during the date, under the sheets, and after he was done. And I say he, because she never really got started.
What helped me understand their, my girl-friends, point of view was that I think and feel more like a woman when it comes to romance, relationships, and sex.
In my free time, I would research information on how to pleasure a woman. And not just sexually, but emotionally too. I was fascinated by the game and playfulness that leads to the sex, the connection.
I enjoy the social foreplay. The how to treat, talk, and approach a woman.
Get them interested in wanting more while knowing them better. Build that emotional connection that leads to the sensually delicious portion of the relationship. I wanted to get better, understand, and know how to pleasure a woman. Learn the many ways to turn a woman ON!
What I found out was that it’s both a science and an art.
A science because the way to turn a woman ON! is different than our current approach, which is ALL about men’s sexuality.
And I tell you this because I found a book, which we’ll discuss later, that opened me up and left me stunned to how wrong, we as a culture, have been towards you ladies when it comes to pleasure & sex. It explains so much about the inner workings of the female sexual response that it should be required reading in our sex education classes growing up and later on in life.
The best part is that once these differences are understood and taken into consideration, you will start getting excited and looking forward to how much fun it will be making art with the many irresistibly sensually delicious approaches one can take to turn you ON! over and over again.
And not just sexually, but how it also helps to strengthen and deepen the intimacy in your relationship since your interest and desire for sex begins way before you get to the bed.
It’s all about what happens throughout your day, how you feel about yourself and are you gradually being pulled in a pleasurable attractive way. Making you quietly say inside… “yes! I like this. I want more!! pleeeeeease continue…”
Growing up and still today, I have a dislike for mainstream porn –
First, there’s no sensually seductive story that leads you to the sex. I would catch myself constantly asking, why should I desire something that I’m not excited for? If you’re not aroused & turned ON, how & why would you be interested in sex in the first place..? It made no sense to me.
Second, while I watched, I would find myself thinking, how can that be pleasurable..? It just looked like everything needed to be hard & fast! That’s not a combination I like or enjoy when it comes to pleasure and sex.
If this is where we learn what to do, our sex education, I can understand the disillusionment and why we avoid it or get turned off to seek it in reality. Because for me, it’s not about the pure physical act of sex that I’m having but more about the experience that leads to it and what happens during the act.
What do you do to get there..? What do you share..? How do you get placed in a state of excitement, enjoyment, and create the eagerness of wanting more of what’s happening..?
Third, I didn’t like the idea of having to get aroused by seeing other people having sex, much less sex that I didn’t find exciting or pleasurable at all. It’s my fantasy. I want to be in it.
When I wanted to pleasure myself, I would get comfortable in my bed, close my eyes, and imagine scenarios, fantasies that I liked and wanted. I would bring back to memory photos I had looked at, poses that sensually stirred me inside about what ladies wore, their expressions, and anything that turned me ON!. Then, I took my time making it into a story allowing it to unfold slooowly inside my head.
Once getting to know someone online became more of a thing and there was a level of trust, I asked myself how would you create interest and stoke her fire. Especially, when there’s geographical distance between you both. Because you don’t know if something real can happen between us later on..
So the question became what would I do given the opportunity?
One thing sparked the other and the fire to start writing down these fantasies began. The idea behind them is to create what we already love to imagine while we play with ourselves, the things that turns us ON!.
They are written in a way that avoids specific details about who the person is and what they look like, just some generalities. With the intention that it should allow you, the reader, to imagine yourself as the protagonist and who you want to share that adventure with. Helping you make each story your own.
Sex is such an intimate & personal journey that it’s not easy to open up and simply talk about. What I’ve normally gotten as a response from girl-friends, after expressing interest and intrigue in reading the stories, is silence..
And after, a shy “do you have more stories to share..?” not explaining why. I respect that and don’t dig in unless they invite me to. What I think is that when they feel ready to share, they will.
Other times, some girl-friends were curious about what I wrote and wanted to know more to see if it lived up to what they imagined it could be. Next time we crossed paths they just blushed and didn’t know how to talk to me afterward. I guess it was better than what they thought it would be… ; )
On one occasion, a good friend of mine caught me off guard and was brave enough to trust me and just opened up..
“Before you send me one of your stories, please warn me it’s coming because I have to prepare for it.”
I had to ask, what do you mean by “prepare”..?
She nervously laughed and said..
“I have to mentally prepare on my drive home from work, turn the AC ON in my bedroom, and take a cold shower so my body cools down..
And then, I can comfortably lie in bed and enjoy the rest of the night..
So don’t you ever send me something without a fair warning first..!”
So this is my warning to you..
…
Only proceed
if you’re completely fine with
being slooowly, sweetly, & fully baked
losing your mind
and never being yourself again
because there’s a high probability
of coming out eXtra crispy in the end..
…
So please
use at your own will
to get aroused, Hot & Off
in whatever way you choose..
…
and hate the idea of having to “wind yourself” up, allow me to do that for you. I will gladly enjoy preheating your oven. I will take the time to change your mood to a sexier one. That’s what I do.
That’s what the stories, sexual adventures, are for. Take away the pain of having to build yourself up, to struggle having to turn yourself ON! or wait for your partner to do so. And wait… and perhaps, keep on waiting…
You’ll see how you will gradually heat up and without realizing it, will be more open to what happens next. I’m here to help you go from feeling stuck, to where you want to be, wanting sex and desiring more of it. Maybe even initiating it..
There are a lot of things going on in your life, to have to worry about getting turned ON! and wanting sex but not feeling like you want to and the frustration of what you’re going to do about it. Constantly asking yourself, how do I even get started?
Let me do that work for you. Seriously, I love it!! = ) that’s what I do.
Just sit back, relax, and enjoy your adventure..!
Make it a sensually delicious eXperience..
Made with sweet love,
Morelli Perea